The Hazards of Promiscuity: Are You Intertwined Sexually With An Unworthy Partner ?
Having sex with people whom we do not love is the most destructive thing we can do though we don’t realize it. Sex is an act of intimacy used to express love and create a family. We should not be sleeping with men and women who we dislike, but make us feel sexually good.
We should be sleeping with people who make us feel worthy, not worthless. Yet. so many of us become intertwined sexually with unworthy partners. There are cases were this occurs by force, but there are just as many cases that occur by choice.
We should be respectful enough of ourselves only to sleep with people we know well. We should only be having sex with people who we love, cherish, honor, support and would do the same for us. We should be sleeping with people we want to start a family with.
In the western world, we widely talk about the health benefits of sex, but we seem to forget to capitalize on the benefits we need to be with a loving trusting partner.
“Several studies have found a link between poor mental health and casual sex, but the nature of that association has been unclear,” said Sara Sandberg-Thoma, doctoral student and lead author of the study. The study involved ten thousand people and the research concluded that people who have casual sex are more likely to be suicidal.
What the study could not determine was if casual sex was a result of poor mental health, or if casual sex created the decline in mental health. Both men and women felt more depressed when they were bouncing from partner to partner.
If we thought logically about pregnancy, a woman is pregnant for nine months, from that evidence alone we could conclude couples are meant to stay together longer than a night and the player mentality is all wrong. We live in a society that sends out contradictory messages. We are taught sex is bad, and there are forms of media that try to repress us sexually. We are taught sex is good, and there are forms of media trying to liberate us from sexual repression. Because humans’ natural urge is to follow the current trend of the cultural framework we exist in, we might literally not know if we should act like a nun or a sex kitten. This contradiction is easy to solve, sex is bad with the wrong person, wonderful with the right person.
Polygamy does not sit well with the value system of family. Getting physical with the wrong person can lead to unwanted children, mistrust, dysfunction, resent and disease. Not to mention it dishonors our long term-partners.
Promiscuity is immature and creates long-term problems. Getting pregnant by multiple partners, or impregnating multiple partners is a sign of immaturity and is a real threat to society because it undermines the family unit, which is crucial to having a balanced community.
Being a player leads to a string of broken relationships and a lack of friendships and a distorted perception of the opposite genders inherent value.
Too many men and women today devalue the opposite gender, claiming the other side are worthless users, even getting violent and smacking each other. I have heard it a thousand times, women claim men use them for sex and men claim women use them to gain material goods. Both of these statements are true and it is up to each individual to value their relationships.
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